Thursday, October 29, 2009

FRIENDSHIP FOR ME

Friendship
From Wikipedia

Friendship is the cooperative and supportive relationship between two or more people. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, affection, and respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as the exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for some, the practical execution of friendship is little more than the trust that someone will not harm them.

Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:

* the tendency to desire what is best for the other
* sympathy and empathy
* honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one's counterpart
* mutual understanding

In a comparison of personal relationships, friendship is considered to be closer than association, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and associations. Friendship and association can be thought of as spanning across the same continuum. The study of friendship is included in sociology, social psychology, anthropology, philosophy, and zoology. Various theories of friendship have been proposed, among which are social exchange theory, equity theory, relational dialectics, and attachment styles.

--anu nga ba ang isang kaibigan? sa edad ko ngayon 24, masasabi ko na napakarami ko ng ibat ibang klase ng tao na nakasalamuha, naging kaibigan ko halos..( to be continued)

1 comment:

  1. Siguro lang ako sa sarili ko napakataas ng standard ko sa pakikipagkaibigan...para sa akin ang isang kaibigan ay kayang intindihin ang lahat ng emotion mo sa buhay pati na ang pangit mong ugali...Minsan may mga tao na akala mo kaibigan mo na pero di pa pala...Ang kaibigan para sa akin di lang sa saya kasama pati na rin sa lungkot at pinansyal.hahaha

    ReplyDelete